Jquery to play on flash

I have 7 list of blocks that I store the information including the video links in mysql database. I created my own flash object, I want to play the video on flash without the load external. I can't be able to play the video on my flash object when I press on the enter button of the keyboard. The video formats I want to play is flv, rtmp, asx, asf, http, rtsp...etc. If you can be able to fix this to allow me to play the video automatically without the flash load external using my own flash object, I would be happy to pay you $10 to do a quick small fix.