java nio chat server(repost)

I'm looking for a simple multithreaded java chat server (command line) that uses NIO technology and has mysql and multiplexing support. The gui client part is not needed as I can make this. The server skeleton can be used from online source code or make your own as long as you are experienced with nio and networking, making a chat protocol and associative arrays/hash tables, etc. for quick uid access The server should function more as a 1-to-1 IM server than chat and should use hash tables/associative arrays and requires the following modificiations: login - User connects with params (userid,username,passwd) authenticated through a mysql db, using threads and/or db connection pool buddylist - This should be pulled from db and stored in memory to check the status of the user's online/offline status updatestatus - User can update their status/appear offline/change status message and information is passed to their subscribers - addBuddy - Self explanatory - delBuddy - Self explanatory - server to server support The server should also make a non blocking outgoing client socket connection (using another thread I imagine) for server to server support ## Deliverables 1) Complete and fully-functional working program(s) in executable form as well as complete source code of all work done. 2) Deliverables must be in ready-to-run condition, as follows? (depending on the nature? of the deliverables): a)? For web sites or? other server-side deliverables intended to only ever exist in one place in the Buyer's environment--Deliverables must be installed by the Seller in ready-to-run condition in the Buyer's environment. b) For all others including desktop software or software the buyer intends to distribute: A software? installation package that will install the software in ready-to-run condition on the platform(s) specified in this bid request. 3) All deliverables will be considered "work made for hire" under U.S. Copyright law. Buyer will receive exclusive and complete copyrights to all work purchased. (No GPL, GNU, 3rd party components, etc. unless all copyright ramifications are explained AND AGREED TO by the buyer on the site per the coder's Seller Legal Agreement). ## Platform linux/all that support java